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 Leslie Speaker Model 70 for Fender Rhodes Piano Hammond Organ $5.00 End Date: Thursday May-24-2012 13:45:34 PDT Buy It Now for only: $10.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Speaker Model 60 for Fender Rhodes Piano Hammond Organ $5.00 End Date: Thursday May-24-2012 13:47:21 PDT Buy It Now for only: $10.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
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 Amphenol 11 Pin Male Plug Heathkit Hammond Leslie $5.50 End Date: Friday Jun-8-2012 18:06:29 PDT Buy It Now for only: $5.50 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Precision Oilier for Hammond or Leslie $7.00 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 6:13:26 PDT Buy It Now for only: $7.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond Leslie Organs Sound floppy Disk ROLAND W 30 W30 $8.89 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 19:14:13 PDT Buy It Now for only: $8.89 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 New Oil Bottle for Leslie Speaker Motors Hammond Organ $6.99 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 21:12:58 PDT Buy It Now for only: $7.99 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 LESLIE Speaker Motor Horn Rotor Oil HAMMOND Brand New LOWEST PRICE ONLINE $11.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:36:49 PDT Buy It Now for only: $11.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Speaker Model 247 Brochure Hammond Organ 147 $10.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 7:59:38 PDT Buy It Now for only: $10.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Organ Speaker 222 Owners Manual Hammond Organ R $10.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 8:01:01 PDT Buy It Now for only: $10.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 HAMMOND LESLIE BASS VOLUME BOOSTER 8 EASY STEPS $12.00 End Date: Thursday Jun-14-2012 23:00:58 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 LESLIE OVERDRIVE WITH THE HAMMOND IN THE BEAUTY EP CD NEW $12.23 End Date: Thursday Jun-21-2012 3:42:52 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.23 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 With The Hammond In The Beauty EP by Leslie Overdrive CD May 2007 $12.32 End Date: Friday May-25-2012 17:05:13 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.32 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Allergy Proof Recipes for Kids by Leslie Hammond Lynne Marie Rominger 2010 $12.99 End Date: Wednesday Jun-13-2012 11:54:31 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Organ Speaker 351 Owners Manual Hammond Organ R $10.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 8:00:21 PDT Buy It Now for only: $10.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond organ Mercotac connector Leslie speaker 710 $10.00 End Date: Tuesday May-29-2012 11:38:15 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 1960s Hammond Organ Tone Cabinet Models Guide Leslie Speaker Hammond Price Lists $10.00 End Date: Thursday May-24-2012 19:49:17 PDT Buy It Now for only: $25.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 1960S HAMMOND ORGAN LESLIE SPEAKER SERVICE MANUAL SCHEMATICS COMPLETE $9.99 End Date: Friday Jun-8-2012 13:45:16 PDT Buy It Now for only: $9.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Carter Hammond Organ In Hi Fi LP Colortone C33 4926 $9.99 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 22:53:35 PDT Buy It Now for only: $9.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
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 Locking key Hammond Organ CV D C2 C3 RT 2 3 Leslie LOWEST ONLINE PRICE $13.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:43:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $13.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 New Lock Key 1969 1975 Hammond B 3 Consoles ONLY Leslie LOWEST ONLINE PRICE $13.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:44:08 PDT Buy It Now for only: $13.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Allergy Proof Recipes for Kids by Leslie Hammond Lynne Marie Rominger 2010 $14.84 End Date: Friday Jun-22-2012 19:44:13 PDT Buy It Now for only: $14.84 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 2 pcs Amphenol 6 pin male plug for Hammond Leslie $12.50 End Date: Friday Jun-8-2012 7:56:29 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.50 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 NEW Allergy Proof Recipes for Kids Hammond Leslie R $12.45 End Date: Thursday May-24-2012 23:55:20 PDT Buy It Now for only: $12.45 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 ALLERGY PROOF RECI LYNNE MARIE ROMINGER ET AL LESLIE HAMMOND PAPERBACK NEW $17.73 End Date: Friday Jun-8-2012 1:01:31 PDT Buy It Now for only: $17.73 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Hammond Allergy Proof Recipes For Kids 2009 $13.76 End Date: Sunday Jun-17-2012 16:49:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $13.76 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 ENJOY LIFES COOKIES FOR EVERYONE BETSY LAAKSO LESLIE HAMMOND PAPERBACK NEW $18.79 End Date: Monday Jun-4-2012 7:00:39 PDT Buy It Now for only: $18.79 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 New Motor Belt lower for Leslie Speaker Hammond Organ rig $14.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 23:44:02 PDT Buy It Now for only: $16.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Kid Friendly Food Allergy Cookbook by Leslie Hammond $15.00 End Date: Monday Jun-11-2012 17:00:50 PDT Buy It Now for only: $15.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond Organ In HiFi Volume 3 Starring Leslie Carter $15.60 End Date: Sunday Jun-10-2012 12:40:06 PDT Buy It Now for only: $15.60 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 HAMMOND XB 2 XB2 ORGAN KEYBOARD LESLIE CONNECTOR CABLE $19.99 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 13:14:29 PDT Buy It Now for only: $24.99 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Factory Motor Belt upper horn for Leslie Speaker Hammond Organ rig $15.00 End Date: Sunday May-27-2012 14:09:21 PDT Buy It Now for only: $17.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 TWO NEW AMPHENOL 9 PIN OCTAL STYLE TUBE SOCKETS FOR LESLIE HAMMOND 78S9 $18.00 End Date: Saturday Jun-2-2012 15:23:27 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Kid Friendly Food Allergy Cookbook by Leslie Hammond and Lynn Rominger 2004 $16.95 End Date: Friday Jun-1-2012 10:17:38 PDT Buy It Now for only: $16.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Allergy Proof Recipes for Kids By Hammond Leslie Rominger Lynne Marie Tracy $20.95 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 10:04:50 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Drive Belt for Leslie Speaker Lower Drum Hammond Organ $15.95 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 19:17:07 PDT Buy It Now for only: $15.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Rotor Cover 17 for Leslie Speaker Cabinets Hammond LOWEST ONLINE PRICE $21.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:40:16 PDT Buy It Now for only: $21.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Factory Motor Belt upper horn for Leslie Speaker Hammond LOWEST PRICE ONLINE $21.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:41:04 PDT Buy It Now for only: $21.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 New Motor Belt lower for Leslie Speaker Hammond Organ rig LOWEST PRICE ONLINE $21.99 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 6:41:43 PDT Buy It Now for only: $21.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Amp Hold Down Bracket for Rotating Speaker 122 147 Hammond Organ $17.00 End Date: Tuesday May-29-2012 15:29:57 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Amp Hold Down Bracket for Rotating Speaker 122 147 Hammond Organ $17.00 End Date: Tuesday May-29-2012 15:30:19 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Rotor Cover 17 for Leslie Hammond Speaker Cabinets USA Made $19.95 End Date: Friday Jun-15-2012 13:26:11 PDT Buy It Now for only: $19.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 12 Ea Amp 5 pin Female Connect Hammond Leslie Speaker $14.95 End Date: Friday May-25-2012 17:19:45 PDT Buy It Now for only: $19.95 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Drive Belt for Leslie Speaker Upper Horn Hammond Organ $16.95 End Date: Tuesday Jun-5-2012 19:26:22 PDT Buy It Now for only: $16.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Organ Speaker 251 Owners Manual Hammond Organ R $20.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 7:57:53 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Enjoy Lifes Cookies for Everyone by Leslie Hammond and Betsy Laakso 2009 $19.95 End Date: Friday Jun-1-2012 10:19:01 PDT Buy It Now for only: $19.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 6 PIN MALE OCTAL SHIEILDED CONNECTOR for ORGAN SPEAKER Leslie allen hammond $20.00 End Date: Monday Jun-11-2012 9:59:43 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Romare Bearden Southern Recollections Mary L Corlett Leslie King Hammond Ja $25.66 End Date: Friday Jun-22-2012 13:40:04 PDT Buy It Now for only: $25.66 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 NEW Romare Bearden Corlett Mary L Hammond Leslie $27.06 End Date: Tuesday Jun-12-2012 4:42:00 PDT Buy It Now for only: $27.06 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Cardboard Spacer Ring for Upper Unit of 122 147 45 etc Hammond Organ $25.00 End Date: Sunday Jun-10-2012 14:20:05 PDT Buy It Now for only: $25.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Tap Your Source NEW by Leslie Karen Hammond $28.39 End Date: Tuesday Jun-5-2012 3:46:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $28.39 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hughie Lee Smith NEW by Leslie King hammond $30.06 End Date: Thursday Jun-14-2012 5:33:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $30.06 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Vintage Jensen V20 V21 V 21 Leslie Horn for 122 147 Hammond Organ Cabinets $12.38 (2 Bids) End Date: Sunday May-27-2012 18:16:11 PDT |
 Midi Bass Pedals 12 Note Hammond Organ Leslie Speaker $20.00 End Date: Sunday Jun-10-2012 11:24:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $20.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond Leslie 6 pin 30 Ft Tone Cabinet Cable $20.00 End Date: Tuesday May-29-2012 14:03:40 PDT |
 Leslie Vintage Single speed Motor for Hammond Organ Sound $39.95 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 9:08:59 PDT Buy It Now for only: $39.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Midi Bass Pedals 13 Note Hammond Organ Leslie Speaker $25.00 End Date: Sunday Jun-10-2012 11:24:41 PDT Buy It Now for only: $25.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Vintage Leslie 120 20 cabinet connector cable box Hammond organ fast slow $35.00 End Date: Wednesday Jun-6-2012 17:04:21 PDT Buy It Now for only: $35.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 2 Hammond organ Leslie speaker slow speed motors $30.00 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 12:18:22 PDT Buy It Now for only: $50.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Hughie Lee Smith by Leslie King Hammond 2010 Hardcover $39.95 End Date: Friday May-25-2012 12:56:12 PDT Buy It Now for only: $39.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hughie Lee Smith NEW by Leslie King hammond $43.61 End Date: Thursday May-24-2012 3:44:39 PDT Buy It Now for only: $43.61 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 VINTAGE HAMMOND LESLIE TYPE H AO 63 IF AMPLIFIER $5.50 (2 Bids) End Date: Sunday May-27-2012 18:10:33 PDT |
 Hammond M3 Leslie 122 147 Repair Restoration Tips CD $49.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-20-2012 12:19:12 PDT Buy It Now for only: $49.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Vintage LESLIE Bakelite HALF MOON SWITCH Main Ensemble Echo 5 pin HAMMOND $49.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-20-2012 18:56:40 PDT Buy It Now for only: $49.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Vintage LESLIE 26 1 CONNECTOR BOX Hammond Organ $49.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-20-2012 19:05:46 PDT Buy It Now for only: $49.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Tremolo Unit from Hammond Organ Models $59.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 17:53:01 PDT |
 Leslie C2C preamplifier preamp Conn Hammond organ speaker 50c 51c 251 $45.00 End Date: Tuesday May-29-2012 10:48:46 PDT Buy It Now for only: $125.00 Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Tremolo Unit Hammond Organ Electro Music 2 speed w switches 8 Utah FR $34.33 (3 Bids) End Date: Sunday May-27-2012 16:50:01 PDT |
 LESLIE CARTER Hammond Organ in Hi Fi COLORTONE 50s LP $59.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-6-2012 11:10:30 PDT Buy It Now for only: $59.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie 6 x 5 pin 40ft cable Hammond $49.00 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 0:48:57 PDT Buy It Now for only: $49.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Speaker 2ch to 1 Converter Hammond Organ 9 Pin $69.95 End Date: Saturday Jun-16-2012 19:17:43 PDT Buy It Now for only: $69.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
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 HAMMOND LESLIE CU2 LESLIE CONTROL UNIT $50.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 14:27:23 PDT |
 Hammond Leslie Speaker Motor Control a modern relay system upgrade $79.00 End Date: Friday May-25-2012 21:12:46 PDT Buy It Now for only: $79.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Tap Off Kit for Vintage Hammond Organs Leslie Speaker $79.95 End Date: Sunday May-27-2012 20:35:12 PDT Buy It Now for only: $79.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 LESLIE PREAMP 6 PIN Cable 30 145 147 Hammond or Guitar Vintage Cable $74.00 End Date: Thursday Jun-21-2012 9:20:22 PDT Buy It Now for only: $74.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie speaker cable 7 pin 50 heavy duty steel ends Hammond Baldwin $79.95 End Date: Thursday May-31-2012 13:47:17 PDT Buy It Now for only: $79.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie speaker cable 7 pin 35+ heavy duty steel ends Hammond Baldwin $79.95 End Date: Thursday May-31-2012 14:19:28 PDT Buy It Now for only: $79.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond M3 Leslie 122 147 Repair Restoration Book $79.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-20-2012 12:19:17 PDT Buy It Now for only: $79.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Hammond CU 1 Tremolo Chorale Switch XK 3c XK 3 $95.00 End Date: Friday Jun-1-2012 19:17:09 PDT Buy It Now for only: $95.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 HAMMOND LESLIE 15INCH REPLACEMENT WOOFER $75.99 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 14:28:14 PDT |
 Leslie Tube Amplifier 6 6 Pin Cable for Vintage Hammond B3 C3 A E H 100 Organ $99.95 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 15:01:30 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie 147 122 Motor 2 Speed Vintage for B3 C 3 2 Hammond Organ $99.99 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 15:19:19 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 The Hammond Organ at Canterbury Cathedral Leslie Spea $100.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 7:56:41 PDT Buy It Now for only: $100.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Rare 9 Pin w 042770 Adapter Connector for Hammond Jensen Speaker Cabinet $89.99 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 9:05:05 PDT Buy It Now for only: $89.99 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 15 Heppner Vintage Hammond organ Speaker for Bass Guitar Leslie Speaker Cabinet $80.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 17:57:09 PDT Buy It Now for only: $80.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 15 ROLA Vintage Hammond organ Speaker for Bass Guitar Leslie Speaker Cabinet $80.00 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 17:57:42 PDT Buy It Now for only: $80.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond Leslie Speaker Controller 9 Pin Connector 825 760 $99.00 End Date: Friday May-25-2012 21:00:31 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Tube Speaker Amplifier Cabinet 6 Pin Cable 122 147 to Hammond Organ B 3 2 $99.95 End Date: Monday May-28-2012 18:11:10 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond Leslie Speaker Motor Control with dual footswitch $99.00 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 9:54:59 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.00 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie speaker cable 6 pin 40 heavy duty steel ends Hammond Baldwin $99.95 End Date: Thursday May-31-2012 12:27:48 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Leslie Hammond Cabinet Covers Stubby Short 125 145 142 45 25 USA Made $103.95 End Date: Wednesday May-30-2012 8:49:53 PDT Buy It Now for only: $103.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
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 3 Hammond Vintage HEPPNER Alnico SPEAKERS 4 Guitar Bass Tube Leslie Amplifier $99.95 End Date: Saturday May-26-2012 9:48:23 PDT Buy It Now for only: $99.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
 Hammond M3 Leslie 122 147 Repair Restoration Book $114.95 End Date: Wednesday Jun-20-2012 12:19:21 PDT Buy It Now for only: $114.95 Buy It Now | Add to watch list |
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Are Christian Singles Cursed?
Is there something wrong with us single people?
I have been asked many times if I had a girlfriend. Or other variations on the same question, such as "why are you a missionary to Peru, do you have a Peruvian girlfriend?" After my response, which is "no", one of a few things undoubtedly happens--its' almost always the same: the person then asks "so how old are you?" as if it's unfathomable that a 29 year-old could be single.
The other response I get when I tell people I'm still single, is the person then asks if there's anyone I'm fancying, and 90% of the last 9 years of my life the answer has been, with total and complete honesty, "nope". But the look on peoples' faces when I say I'm single--and they know I'm 29 years old or I tell them--makes me almost wonder if I'm doing something wrong. Or if something's wrong with me.
I seriously think sometimes when I'm visiting my grandparents and aunt telling them there is no special someone in my life, I feel like they're kind of ashamed or something. Like, they're waiting for me to come out of the closet and admit to being gay or something. However, a few years ago I read words of someone else's e-mail where I was referred to by a former friend as "a queer waiting to happen". This brother in particular, no longer serving the Lord, has had a string of two-month long relationships for as long as I'd known him, and never gone more than two months without being in a relationship, so I'm not surprised he can't fathom I'm content in the Lord as a single male until the Lord changes that and invites me to initiate something towards some awesome young woman of God.
Sure, I'm human just like anybody else. I'd love to have someone to watch cheesy Leslie Neilson movies--who likes them also. I'd love to take someone special walking around various places in other cities of the world where I've prayer walked. I have all those desires and fancies. But I can wait, because I don't desire to share those times with just anyone. And I have been that way for years. Maybe a lot longer than most.
You see, I know I can't entertain a relationship in my life right now, even if I wanted to (believe me, I want to). But so much would have to change that I don't want to change yet, to be honest--and I don't think the Lord wants to change in my life this season either.
Twenty-nine? Is that really how old I am? It feels like this past decade has been just whizzing by! The other night, I was up late, and a re-run of Saturday Night Live came on and it looked almost brand-new--it's been years since I've watched it consistently, but I still catch the odd live show if someone interesting is going to be hosting it. But I knew it was a re-run because of the timeslot in which it was on. They opened with a skit based on the presidential election debates between George W. Bush (played by Will Ferrell) and Al Gore played by Darrell "is he still on SNL?" Hammond. It was hilarious as heck. And then after the opening credits, out came Dana Carvey who was hosting that episode, and he proceeded to make fun of all these politicians of the day and I *understood* the jokes and references.
I thought to myself "ten years? This episode is tenyears old? I remember this stuff like it was months ago! Where did all the time go?" But I don't feel I've wasted any time in the last six years or so. The idea of going to Bible school is still fresh, like I can't believe I even went, let alone graduated and have been on the mission field for several years! I have very few things I'd change or do differently. It's not 100% the way I'd like it to have been, but then there are a few--just a few things I'd do differently. However, there are no girls I would have gone and done something to sweep off their feet. Almost all of them that I ever had an interest in I went for it and found out quickly and with varying degrees of disappointment that it was never meant to be. I didn't begin anything that resulted in me being dumped or devastated like many of my peers.
I don't feel like I've been missing out. If anything, I feel like I've avoided a lot of crap I've watched other people get into. And I don't feel I am worthy of the pity that some people treat me with as if being single at my age is the same as having terminal illness I can do nothing about. Just because you would have died if you didn't marry your sweetheart at the age of 18 like you did, doesn't mean I'm not content, satisfied and whole in my relationship with the ultimate lover of my soul, Jesus Christ. Some of my peers may read pity my singleness all these years, but I shake my head in gratitude that I've been spared the pain I've watched many of my peers go through from relationships that were never meant to be.
So what's the rush? Will I be worthy of pity if I'm single for another five years? Ten? Never marry? (which, God, I hope is not going to happen!)
Statistically speaking, almost all of you reading this will spend the majority of your life married to someone. Do you really think it's too hard for God to make it work out with someone He has ordained for you before the foundation of the world? I personally don't believe in soul mates, I believe we choose. And I believe whomever we choose, will happen to be our soul mates. Try and figure out that paradox! I am not contradicting myself, I just believe that's how it works. Can wrong people decide to marry each other? Sure, but I don't plan on marrying the wrong person, or settling for second best, and that's why I'm still single at this point in my life. And I'm fine with it and happy because my wholeness comes from Christ Jesus, not on who else is in my life for the time being.
In fact, I've gone this long this far, and I'm not about to settle now for just anybody.
About the Author
Steve has been a missionary to Europe for over 2 years, and currently serves in Peru, involved in a church plant and spreading the kingdom of God there. He is a contributing author on the Fire On Your Head Blog, which can be viewed at www.fireonyourhead.org and also co-hosts a bi-weekly podcast with another missionary, Fire On Your Head- The Podcast, at www.fireonyourhead.com Both sites dwell richly in Pentecostal/Charismatic themes within Christianity.
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